2010... 2011...

A lot has happened over the last year.  Major changes in my life and in Hard Alley.  Anyone that knows me already knows what all has happened this year, so I won't bore anyone with it.  Instead, I want to talk about 2011.

In January, Candace and I will return to making SL porn movies.  We just haven't had the time to do any over the last few months, but we are looking forward to resuming production over the next week or so.  We have several projects in various stages of development and are looking forward to working with many of the SL porn movie community.

Hard Core will also be rocking as always with our fantastic DJs!  Their eclectic style and variety of music means that the party is always fresh at Hard Core.  Club Manager Trixianna has some great ideas for events coming up, and by popular demand we'll be resuming our Slut Prize givaways soon!

Roleplaying in Hard Alley continues to improve, but its still not where I'd like it to be.  I'd love to see more short, sexy scenes played out in the dark corners and abandoned buildings.  The addition of a drug den and brothel will hopefully lead to some additional RP situations, and the new biker gang is very heavy into RP.

I will also be attempting to revive DCS combat in Hard Alley, with street gangs fighting it out on regular occasions.  Stay tuned for more on that.

In light of the former Mayor of Hard Alley embezzling the town's treasury and sneaking off in the middle of the night (I hear he is somewhere in Thailand now enjoying the company of several small animals), Hard Alley will be holding new elections soon.  As before, I expect these elections to be full of cheating, bribery, and sex scandals.  This will be a no-holds barred election where anything goes and anyone can win.

In May, Candace and I will hopefully celebrate being a couple for one year.  Although we had known each other for over a year, it wasn't until last May that we really found each other and realized that we should be together.  Every day I am with her is better than the last.  She makes me happy.  We've both lost friends because of our relationship (instead of being happy for us, some people just de-friended us instead), but that only made the bonds we share with each other and our true friends even closer.

July 2011 will mark Hard Alley's 5th Anniversary. Looking at the list of SL Sex Sites, I could not find a single one that has been around longer. The sex sites that preceeded it, like Heaven and Hell, and The Sex Club, are all long gone. Hard Alley is still going strong and only gets better over time because it is full of hot sexy people who know how to have fun!

After that?  I have no idea.  I'm just making this up as I go along.

Merry Christmas!

Some thoughts for Christmas:

Please be careful in your travels.

Be tolerant and forgiving of family and friends. 

Be patient with children. 

Be mindful of those men and women who are overseas, away from their own families, to protect your freedom to be with yours.

Give yourself a present and forgive those with whom you have quarrelled this year.

Respect other's right to celebrate the season as they wish, regardless of if you agree with them.

Enjoy your time with those you love.

Remember fondly those who are no longer with you.

Keep in your heart the reason you are celebrating.

May each of you has a Safe and Happy Christmas this year!

 

My Thoughts on Drama

Drama is going to happen.  Fuck it.

Who are the players in a drama?

The Combatants:  These are the primary cause of the drama, dragging their arguments out for everyone to enjoy.

The Bystanders:  These are the people that get caught in the crossfire and are dragged into the drama unwittingly.

The Observers:  The people who are not part of the drama but can't turn away from it.

The Gangbangers:  The ones who aren't part of the initial drama, but jump into it, taking sides and making it a much bigger mess.

The Arbitrators:  Those who try to bring the drama to a close.  Usually neutral.

Bitches need to be put in their place!

SL is like RL.  It has drama.  Not everyone is going to get along with everyone else.  Personalities conflict.  Some people will like you.  Some won't.  Realistically, there's no avoiding it.  Everyone will be involved directly in drama at some point unless they are completely cut off from all other people.

The question is, how will you handle it?

Are you the Combatant?  If so, will you fight to your "dying breath" and never surrender until the other party is beaten and humiliated?  Is that a victory to you?  Will you decide that the drama is not worth the time you spend on it, and mute and move on?  Did you just let the other party "win"?



Putting the Bitch in her place!

If you aren't the Combatant, what role will you play?  Gangbanger?  Do you feel the need to plunge into the fray and make YOUR feelings heard?  Are you that wise, that you feel your arguments will suddenly bring the conflict to closure, or do you just see a good fight and want to be part of it?  Do you see friends on both sides and want to be the Arbitrator help them all get along?  Will you keep your opinions to yourself and quietly Observe the drama as it unfolds, popcorn in hand?

How you handle drama says more about you than the drama itself.  In most cases, all the original arguments are lost as everything devolves into "he said, she said" arguments that always go nowhere.  By the time the dust settles, no one really cares, no one has "won", and everyone is left with a bad taste in their mouth.  Think about the part you play.  Is anyone's SL (or RL) going to be a better place because of it?

I've had my share of drama.  I'm not proud of how I've handled it.  I hope to live and learn and do better next time.  Only time will tell if I am successful.  (for those of you reading the captions under the pictures, it's a joke!)

Drama? Fuck it.

Married at Last!

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Halloween at Hard Alley!

We had a great time at Hard Alley's 5th Annual Halloween Party.  There were some great costumes and the night before we had Ghost Story Night at the Cemetary which was a blast.  There was plenty of nudity and naughtiness and DJ Trix kept us rocking with some great music.  Here are a few pics from the weekend's events.  You can find the rest on the Hard Alley Flickr site.

Bachelor Party Time!

One of the greatest things to come out of the institution of marriage is the Bachelor Party.  One wild, drunken night filled with horny guys, slutty girls, and the unspoken agreement that nothing that happens will ever be spoken of to the Bride-to-Be.  Through this rite of passage, a man gets his one last night as ruler of all her surveys, the king of the hill, the man on top...

And then he gets married.  "He" becomes "We" and life thereafter is filled with lame ass phrases like, "Just because I'm on a diet doesn't mean I can't look at the menu".  His regular night out with the boys slowly grinds to a halt as his non-married friends decided having him around cramps their style.  He begins to do things he never thought he'd do, such as holding his wife's purse while she shops, going to the store to buy pads at 11pm, and spending entire days looking at new bathroom fittings, because the old fittings don't match the color of the new toilet seat cover she bought.  And worst of all, every sexy girl he sees and wants to fuck is off limits, because he is now committed to banging the same pussy for the rest of his life.

And all this time, the man is thinking back to that last wild night... reliving it in his dreams...

So here is the plan.  In November (hopefully, if schedules permit) I will be getting married to Candace Flossberg, the hottest, sexiest girl in SL.  I am not worried about losing my night out with the boys, mostly because I never did that anyway.  I don't mind going shopping with Candace because she is usually buying slutty clothes that I will rip off her later.  I won't have to go to the store to buy pads.  If we go looking for bathroom fittings, we are probably looking for one with the best sex options, and not the right color.

And if I see a girl I want to fuck, I will fuck her, because Candace and I have a wonderful open relationship and sex with others is not an issue.  In fact, its encouraged.

Even so, sometime prior to that wedding day, I will be having a bachelor party.  It will be wild.  It will have slutty girls.  There will be things that the Bride-to-Be probably will not want to know about.  But because I know you are all soooo interested in my sex life, I will be posting a detailed account of the bachelor party for everyone's enjoyment.

By the way, I am looking for girls for the party.  I need hot little sluts that want to be fucked hard and used like dirty whores.  Send me a notecard with nude pics and your "qualifications".  If I have more responses than I can fit into the party, I might just have several "private" parties until I've worked my way through them all.  Shy girls need not apply.

It's time for the best bachelor party SL has ever seen.  Let the sex begin!

Hard Core Halloween!

October is my favorite month.  Halloween is my favorite holiday.

Halloween is a big event at Hard Alley.  I've been decorating the sim and getting ready for several Halloween events.  The lovely and talented Summer Seale has provided me with some of her wonderful decorations and they add a lot to the atmosphere.  Several Alley regualars are already getting into the spirit of the holiday, dressing up in costumes, wearing their finest pale grey skins, and sharpening their axes and icepicks.

Some of the events we have planned include the Annual Hard Alley Costume Party at the Strip Club and Ghost Story Night at the Cemetary.  I'm toying with the idea for a zombie gang-bang, but don't have any details yet.  I'll be making announcements through the various Hard Alley groups as to where and when these events will be taking place.

Here are some pics of the Alley decorated up for Halloween.

Takashi and Chrystina looking pale and undead...

The Giant Pumpkin looms over the town square...

Halloween at Hard Alley

The Hard Core Strippers giving out Candy...

Hard Core goes Orange!

The Ghost Story Campfire in the Hard Alley Cemetary...

 Hope to see you all there!  Happy Halloween!