It's Hard!

Did everyone enjoy the HardCore Hunt?  I know I did!  I'm glad it's over, but it was a lot of fun and Naiya Valeska and Maezy Magic deserve a lot of praise for all their hard work organizing it and running it.  Naiya is already working on HardCore Hunt:  XXX-Mas!  Keep reading here or checking Hard Alley Gang notices for more info!

Coming Soon to a Sex Sim Near You!

Now, I have decided to share some of my always wonderful advice with you, my dear readers (all 3 of you).  You don't have to take my advice, but your Second Lives will be sooo much happier if you do.  My advice is for both the men and women of SL.  I'll start with the men.

First off men, don't be a douche bag.  Just because you can log off when things get heated and jump onto an anonymous alt, doesn't mean you should.  If you leave someone hanging because you couldn't man-up and deal with whatever situation made you panic, then you are a douche bag.  Don't lead someone on, letting them think you are really into them and want more than just a quick fuck.  There's NOTHING wrong with just wanting sex, just make sure you are up front with the girl and tell her that's all there is to it.  Trust me, girls in SL enjoy sex, too.  You don't have to lie to them or lead them on to get in their pixel panties.  ADVICE FOR MEN:  BE HONEST!

Women, have some self-esteem!  While I know that a lot of women who play SL do have low self-esteem in RL for whatever reason, SL is a clean slate!  It's where you can be a self-confident, proud, and strong woman!  ALL of you have this ability within you, even if you don't see it in yourself.  Each of you, in your own way, is a full, complete person on your own, and you are not defined by how others see you, or if you have a man (or woman) in your life.  Men are turned off by women who constantly put themselves down and belittle their own self-worth, just as they are turned on by strong, confident women.  If you find yourself saying, "no one likes me", then THAT is probably why!  ADVICE FOR WOMEN:  BE CONFIDENT!

Now, if we can just get the thoughtful, honest men together with the strong, confident women in a place where they can explore their new outlook on (SL) life.  Oh!  I know!  Hard Alley is the perfect place!  True love has blossomed there before!

If you have met your soul-mate... your true love... in Hard Alley, please leave a comment below!