Have you ever noticed just how miserable some people are in Second Life? We all have friends that seem to have nothing but problems and grief to complain about. I am not talking about the ones who actually have miserable Real Lives. I am talking about the ones that are miserable in game.
Why are they miserable in Second Life? Most of the time it's because they allow others to dictate how they play and keep them from enjoying the game the way in which they want. They allow some Master or Mistress or Boyfriend or Girlfriend to put restrictions and demands on them. In most cases they want to believe they are submissive, but a true submissive would be happy living this way. Instead, these people complain about how unhappy they are but are unwilling to do what is needed to change.
Want to know the secret to having a happy Second Life? Play the game YOUR way!
That's it. Problem solved. You do what YOU want, and if your Master/Mistress/Boyfriend/Girlfriend doesn't like it then they need to be told to mind their own business! I am sure they wouldn't stand for anyone telling THEM how to play, but they don't think twice about dictating to others.
Do what you want to do. Go where you want to go. Fuck people you want to fuck. If someone has a problem with you, its THEIR problem, not yours. Mute and move on. Don't waste YOUR fun time on people that can't accept you for who you are.
Take charge of your own happiness. Make it happen. Don't let anyone, including me, tell you how to play your game! (although I kind of just did, didn't I?)